My father had two religions, Lutheranism and Workism. He had a difficult time relaxing after his service to the church (interim pastor whenever and wherever a local church had a vacancy) and after all the other spadework he executed, which included five days a week at Boeing and endless gardening and building tasks around the house. Even when he sat in a comfy chair, which was rare, he would be reading the Bible to prepare for Bible Study class. He was fond of saying, “If anyone will not work, neither shall he eat.” He nabbed that quotation from the Bible, from which he freely quoted and from which he was ever ready to offer a timely verse to suit any occasion. So Dad worked. Hard. On those days that he didn’t drive to Renton and the aerospace plant, he would stand at the kitchen sink during lunchtime to eat a slapped-together cheese sandwich before returning to the garden to hoe or weed or plant. He always had a task underway: an additional room to attach to our smallish house, a new fireplace after knocking down a wall, or the supervision of a work party at church. Taking a day off for R & R was not on his schedule. The closest he came to aimless recreation was after church when he would chauffeur the family for a drive through the tony neighborhoods by Lake Washington in Seattle, a drive-by tour, I guess, to show us where the well-to-do half lived.
Of course, I did not share then nor now his unbridled enthusiasm for work-work-work, at least not to the degree he valued the work doctrine—regardless, I had a fierce love for him. Perhaps as an act of rebellion against parental authority, I have long cherished regular and mandatory timeouts when working, even though I am not cocksure what the definition of work actually is. If my father passed down the work ethic to his children (and he sure tried), this child cultivated a pause ethic as well, a gratitude for teatime, for a spur-of-the-moment nap, for an unscheduled walk around the lake. Pausing refreshes and allows me to be still and silent for a few moments. It provides space for reflection, for rest, and for considering what needs consideration.
COVID-19 has affected everyone except for hermits and a few far-flung herding Bedouin communities. For the remainder of us, daily routines have become unsettling and a cause to look at time in a novel way. In the end, prudent isolation and stepping back from the load we usually lift may be just the therapy to adjust our lives for the better. This crisis, this dread, this pandemic is no practice drill, not a public announcement that interrupts the Hip-Hop music on the radio. This time the virus will change behavior for a long time, if not forever. My mother was fond of saying that the common cold was meant to slow us down, to make us rest and get well in the long run. I did not see the logic in that claim then. I do now. Springtime 2020 presents the world with a pandemic that is destructive to lives and livelihood and is, bizarrely, an opportunity to change things for the better.
Have you noticed that the crime is down throughout America? Also, the stinkers who advocate for war have called time-out to regroup while hunkering down in their war rooms. And, holy smoke, air quality has dramatically improved around the world because the gears that run industry and all those millions of combustion engines have temporarily shut down.
All around my Steilacoom, Washington neighborhood people are walking their dogs, getting plenty of exercise, and cooking at home—all good for wellbeing. Strangers walk by and wave as if we were old friends. Able-bodied folks make grocery deliveries for the people next door who have physical limitations. Out of necessity, family and friends connect via Zoom or FaceTime, nurturing closer bonds in spite of the coronavirus and all the physical distancing proscriptions.
Finally, this unforeseen pause in the way we live may, just may, revolutionize our attitudes toward work and toward the important elements of our lives: family, faith, and enlightened reflection. When we get to the other side of this crisis, there is a good chance that we will have learned an important lesson.